I have to endure all the pains

I use to think that there are some ways to avoid most of the pains by some sort of hedging activities, but I was wrong, pains can be hedged to some extend. But in the long run, more hedging activities will only result in more superficial understanding of life itself.

So why does life bring pains? why do I sometimes hate to face it? The main reason for the pains is the variety of community's behaviors, the more witty a member is, the more complex the community's behaviors can be, so I have to struggle more to understand and get accustomed to it. And sometimes I hate to face it because there seem to be someone who is able to hedge most pains by hacking. But after a few tries, I found that the hedging tricks won't make me happy.

So the final resolution is, let the pains be pains, and then enjoy the happiness after the pains.